
Self reflection is one thing I want to do more in 2011. One thing I’m exploring is change.
There are times where you feel like what you’re doing now is what you’ll be doing for the rest of your life. Recently, I was thinking about how people change ever so slightly each day; whether it’s changing how you spend your time including the way you carry yourself, who you spend my time with, what you surround yourself with, what you read, etc.
After looking back at the year, I realized three major changes I’ve noticed now looking back at my experiences within the past year:
1) My perspective on learning has shifted. When consuming content, there are many ways to go about it. I noticed that I went from reading content that was “interesting” to a mindset of reading content as I needed it; a “just-in-time” mindset. This kind of mindset has allowed me to be much more efficient with my time. Going through Mashable and Techcrunch is critical but in terms of opinion pieces, do I really need to read ten or more 1000+ word articles a day on social media? No, not really. Instead, I have become more solution focused; what’s the obstacle, what’s the solution and what’s the information I need to bridge the gap.
The change: focus on a problem and find solutions to address it specifically. Less irrelevant content and faster time to find a solution.
2) Changes in leadership style. As I became even more involved with SIFE Ryerson, my leadership style has changed dramatically. TRUSTING the people you work with allows you to focus on what’s important and helps them go through their own trials and tribulations. I’m not saying that it’s ideal to leave people and let them crash and burn. But I’m suggesting that there is only so much hand holding that’s helpful to their long-term professional career.
The most important change that has allowed me to be more productive while helping others increase their productivity is to step in to answer specific questions and overcome obstacles then, move out of the way to keep the momentum flowing. A perfectionist outlook to criticize details can really slow down progress.
The change: let people make their own mistakes. It’s important people learn to succeed. And if they fail, they need to understand why they failed, what they could have done better next time and learn how to get up to go at it again. Success doesn’t come without failure.
3) My friends = Me. A paraphrase of an old saying, “The average income of your 5 close friends is your income,” in my opinion is still relevant. If you are around individuals who are adventurous, spontaneous and take risks, sooner or later you become more adventurous, spontaneous and take more risks. There is definitely a line between being peer pressured by your friends vs. being inspired by your friends to enhance the quality of your life.
The people I surround myself are important to me. If I surround myself with people who aren’t doing new and exciting things or just don’t have that burning desire to add value to the world around them, I drop them.
I’m fortunate to have interesting people doing awesome things (what’s up SIFE Ryerson?!). Outside of Ryerson, Toronto’s start up community is really helpful! From attending events like Startup Weekend and Democamps to reaching out to successful entrepreneurs for advice, it’s amazing to have that support.
The change: start surrounding myself with people who have similar goals as myself and are ambitious as me, if not more. For me, it helps to keep my “fire lit” and pushes me my limit!
The motivating component of change, for me at least, is that it doesn’t need to have a definitive end date. The three changes are the beginning of a progressing change over time. It’s not possible to just change deep-rooted behaviours such as leadership styles overnight. It takes time, exploration and small “failures” along the way (failure are the blog posts alone!).
As I’m writing this post, I realize that I’m spending more time unlearning inefficient habits than implementing new, sound habits and strategies.
Over To You:
What are some of the changes you would like to see? What are you doing to make those changes happen? My goal with this blog is to be as transparent as I can be and I would love your honest input :)